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Secrets to Getting Your Kid to Listen to You

As a teacher, I have a front row seat to children misbehaving. Most of the time, I am in no way judging other parents. Kids get tired, they get sick, they have a bad day and they throw a fit or decide not to listen. It happens. But one thing that does bother me is when a kid doesn’t listen and you can tell this isn’t a one-off or a bad day. It is something that consistently happens.

I’ll give you a hint: as someone who works with kids, we can tell the difference. We can tell when a parent is embarrassed and just trying to get their kid out without losing their cool. We can also tell when a parent lets their kid have total control over everything.

(Make sure you check out my tips for dealing with stubborn toddlers and my ultimate guide to giving toddlers choices. These can both come in super helpful when dealing with a non-listening toddler!)

Let me tell you something: That doesn’t have to be the case. You can take back control by getting your child to listen, specifically when you are out and about. I’m not talking about blind obedience. I’m not saying your child will listen 100% of the time. I’m just saying your child needs to understand that you are the adult and what you say goes. Here are five ways to get your child to listen.

A non-listening child is one of the most frustrating things. But as a parent, there are things you can do to get your child to listen. Here are five tips you can use starting today. quirkyandthenerd.com

4 Tricks I’m Using to Prevent Morning Sickness

When I found out I was pregnant again, I was a bit nervous. I mean, don’t get me wrong, I was excited. But when I was pregnant with Mac, morning sickness kicked my butt. Like if you have read my tips for pregnant ladies, you’ll know morning sickness hit me like a semi-truck and it didn’t leave for 4 months. I was terrified that the same thing would happen again, except this time I am working full-time, raising a toddler, and selling and buying a house. But after some experimenting, talking to my midwife, and getting some sage advice from a pregnant friend, I have found 4 tricks I’m using to get through it.

*Just a disclaimer: I am not a doctor. Make sure you talk to your doctor about some of these!

hit me Morning sickness hit me like a truck with my last pregnancy. This time, I have found four tricks to help prevent it. quirkyandthenerd.com

How I’m Raising the Most Polite Toddler Ever

You know what my 2-year-old says totally unprompted when I get her something? “Thank you!” And you know what she tacks on when she asks for something? “Please!” Now, she is only a toddler, so this doesn’t happen 100% of the time. But I bet I will surprise you by telling you it happens 95% of the time.

I’m not raising some etiquette genius and I haven’t spent hours drilling manners and politeness into her head. In fact, I managed to get her to be polite with very little effort or time. Make sure you read on for my three tips.

Everyone wants polite kids. Well my 2 year old is the most polite of all! Read my three, simple tips on how to have a polite toddler. quirkyandthenerd.com

Putting Together a Non-Religious Easter Basket

Right now, Andrew and I have agreed to raise our children in a non-religious way until they are old enough to make a decision about their own religious beliefs. That means for some holidays, we search for non-religious ways to celebrate. Christmas is pretty easy. Christmas trees, Santa, and gift-giving are all non-religious. But Easter has been a bit different.

Mac is old enough now to start understanding and celebrating holidays so I wanted to do something to mark Easter since there are aspects that are non-religious. (The Easter bunny, dying eggs, Easter baskets etc.) Once I saw that I See Me! has a selection of personalized Easter books, I knew that was the start of Mac’s Easter basket. (P.S. you can order a personalized Easter book for your little bunny too. They have guaranteed delivery by Easter as long as you order before 4/9!)

If you are interested in other gift ideas, check out my non-toy gift ideas for babies, toddlers, preschoolers, elementary children and the whole family.

You don't have to be religious to put together an Easter basket for your child. Check out what I put in my daughter's Easter basket this year! quirkyandthenerd.com

My Daughter Plays with Dolls and Cars

When my daughter was born, I decided almost immediately that I wasn’t going to push her into the “girly” things that it seems is so prevalent today. It doesn’t seem to be as big of a problem with boy children, but there is definitely a section of parents who push their female children firmly into the princess camp. I’m talking every outfit has a tutu and giant hair bow, they watch exclusively princess shows, and have plenty of dolls and dress-up clothes, but not much else. And it isn’t because the child chooses is necessarily, but the parents are unknowingly shoving them into it.

I have seen these parents and children at school and I was firmly against it for my daughter. I dress her mostly from the “boys” clothing section and allow her to choose things that might not be seen as feminine. I also give her a range of toys to play with. (Make sure you read to the end to learn more about the male brain and the female brain. It is so interesting!)

Every child should have a range of toys instead of being forced to play with "boy" toys or "girl" toys. Read about what toys I recommend and a little bit about the male brain and the female brain theory. quirkyandthenerd.com

How We Decided on Our Daughter’s Last Name

I’ve already written about how I decided to keep my last name after I got married, but I’ve never written about how we decided on what Mac’s last name would be. When I was pregnant, we got a lot of questions about how we would decide. Andrew and I had separate last names and everyone was curious about how we would handle it. Here was the simple way we came up with that worked for us and our family.

My husband and I have different last names, so when we had a child, we had to decide how to handle the last name situation. Read about why my daughter took my last name instead of my husband's. quirkyandthenerd.com

Why Every Toddler Should Have a Learning Tower

When I was pregnant and had a newborn, I was very careful about what I bought. I was all for minimalism (although I did spring the money for a bedside co-sleeper, cloth diapers and some minimalist cloth diaper accessories.) So imagine everyone’s surprise when I decided I wanted to buy a learning tower for Mac. Well there are three definite reasons I wanted to buy one.


(For anyone who doesn’t know, a learning tower is a big wooden platform that toddlers and older children can use to be able to reach the counter.)

Despite being a proponent of not buying everything under the sun for a child, I definitely think everyone should buy a learning tower. Read about the three reasons I think every toddler should have a learning tower. quirkyandthenerd.com

 

Why I Didn’t Change My Last Name When I Got Married

Every now and then, I get asked why I didn’t change my last name when I got married. Some people are just so used to women changing their name that they can’t fathom why someone wouldn’t. But it was a pretty easy decision for me to make and Andrew to understand. Here are the few reasons why I didn’t change my last name. (If you are wondering what we will do when we have children, read about how we decided on our daughter’s last name.)

P.S. I think deciding on whether to change your name or not is a super personal decision. Everyone, man or woman, should have the option to decide what name they want after marriage.

I didn't change my last name when I got married and my husband was perfectly okay with it. Read about why it was an easy decision for me to make. quirkyandthenerd.com

I Dress My Toddler Girl from the “Boys” Section

Before Mac was born, we purposely didn’t find out whether she was a girl or a boy. I love surprises and Andrew was nice enough to go along for the ride. I found it interesting how annoyed people got by the fact that we didn’t find out. I kept hearing complaints about how that made it soooo hard for them to shop for the baby because how would they know whether to buy pink stuff or blue stuff. Of course once Mac was born, we were given plenty of girly, frilly things for her to wear, but we continued to do most of our shopping from the “boys” section. Read on to find out why we don’t limit her to only girls clothing.

Now, I have nothing against my daughter wearing a tutu, but when my husband and I do the clothes shopping, we shop almost exclusively from the "boys" section. Why is that? Well we have several good reasons for dressing our toddler from the "boys" section. Read about them at quirkyandthenerd.com

The Downside to My Daughter’s Independence

Every parenting decision has a downside. As a Montessori parent, all of that independence can be a bit much! Listen to a lighthearted take on the downside to being a Montessori parent.

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